How is Soulmate Love like a Car?

“Like the human body, ignoring even the smallest signs of trouble in your car’s performance can lead to trouble down the road.

“And some missed signals cost more than others. A new report by Corporation details exactly which maintenance mistakes can cause the most damage.

“Here are the top 10:
1. Putting off recommended / scheduled maintenance
2. Ignoring the “check engine” light
3. Not changing the oil, or not having it changed on time
4. Not checking tire pressure
5. Neglecting coolant, brake, transmission and other fluid services
6. Continuing to drive when the vehicle is overheating
7. Not changing fuel and air filters
8. Having unqualified shops service your vehicle
9. Using generic aftermarket parts instead of original equipment manufacturer (OEM)-quality parts
10. Trying to service your own high-tech vehicle

“The best example of the snowball effect of missed car repairs is the air filter. It costs about 20 bucks to replace, but if left alone, a dirty filter can bust oxygen (02) sensors in cars, which cost as much as $250 to replace. And when the sensor fails, you’ll first see your gas mileage plunge, then possibly wind up with a $1,000 bill to replace your catalytic converter.

“No. 3 deserves special attention, as well. Technicians say ignoring oil changes is the “single most damaging car maintenance item that their customers neglect that they wish they could change,” according to CarMD.

“The trouble with dirty oil is that it doesn’t jive well with the high-tech engines in today’s modern vehicles, according to Art Jacobsen, CarMD vice president, and can lead to engine failure if left ignored for too long.

“The old go-to rule for oil changes was to refresh every 3,000 miles. But most experts agree drivers should go by the schedule their car’s manufacturer dictates instead.”1

[hilight color=”FFFF00”]QUESTION: How is Soulmate Love like a Car?[/hilight]

[hilight color=”FFFF00″]ANSWER: Relationships, too, require regular maintenance and tune-ups![/hilight]

What is the equivalent of an oil change. or response to a “warning light”, or changing out the the filters, tightening up the belts – “maintenance” or a “tune up” – in your precious and valuable relationships? Some helpful hints can be found here

1. from article titled The 10 Worst Things You Can Do To Your Car” By Mandi Woodruff | Business Insider – Fri, Jan 25, 2013 1:28 PM EST


How is Soulmate Love like a Car

“Magic” Between Soulmate Hearts

The best and most beautiful things in the world cannot be seen or even touched – they must be felt with the heart.
Helen Kelle

Soulmates have a uniquely magical ability to communicate, especially in silence, heart to heart. This is one of the most powerful and rewarding aspects of a true love connection, commitment and bond.

Communication, the first of the four “C’s” of a happy and healthy relationship includes respectful, uplifting, honest yet kind communication. Compromising this level of verbal and physical communication degrades and ultimately destroys the unspoken communication unique to Soulmates.

Daily reminders of what you love, admire and appreciate about your Soulmate keeps it easy to maintain a loving, kind level of communication, spoken and unspoken.

What if, today you committed to make every day a special and loving, kind Valentine’s Day between you and your Soulmate? What might be different for you and the love of your life?

If you would like help rekindling the flames of passion between you and your Soulmate; please consider the Life Change Coaching Program. Return tomorrow to learn about the 2nd of the 4 “C’s” of a happy, healthy Soulmate relationship…

Cheers <3

Togetherness – The Healthy Alternative

There is more hunger for love and appreciation in this world than for bread.~ Mother Theresa

Studies prove that married couples live longer than single people… why is that?

Maybe a better statement might be that lonely people have a shorter life expectancy than people with fulfilling relationships. In short, loneliness, not only makes people miserable, loneliness suppresses the immune system and increases susceptibility to illness.

Good news! There is a cure for what ails lonely hearts and health, AND it adds years to their life! A Soulmate Relationship!

It is important, however, that the time spent in a Soulmate relationship be fulfilling and rewarding – lonely in a relationship could be even worse than single and lonely! So, how do you make sure that the relationship you attract is ideal?

Simple: Life Change the App and its 4 in 1 exercises help you identify what ideal means to you – using the always free app, Soulmate Attracter – then, (& this is the biggie) the 3 in-app purchase apps (Belief Change, Karma Change & Emotion Transformer) help you remove blocks and barriers to attracting and enjoying the love of your life. 4 apps in 1, Life Change the App is a free download in the Apple App Store and Android’s Google Play[hilight color=”FFFF00″]the 3 in-app purchases (Belief Change, Karma Change & Emotion Transformer) are on sale $6.99 for all 3, now until midnight on Valentine’s Day[/hilight], then will return to $6.99 & $7.99 each. Soulmate Attracter app is always free and can be used and reused unlimited times. For more information, please check out

Simple, however, is not always easy. For those who need or wish for additional support or accelerated results there is the Life Change Coaching Program. Check it out here.



End Single – Attract Your Ideal Soulmate NOW

“Your task is not to seek for love, but merely to see and find all the barriers within yourself that you built against it” -Rumi

Remove the barriers and love comes to you effortlessly!

What are the barriers within? How do you remove them?

Barriers are judgments formed as the result of past experiences that form beliefs. These beliefs primarily operate unconsciously, sometimes consciously, to protect you from perceived “harm” – perception shaped by your beliefs.

For example, if you observed many marriages that experience pain of adultery – or if you experienced it personally in your own relationship; you may decide that “marriage equals pain”. Additionally, you may decide that all spouses cheat and, consequently, view all prospective spouses as future cheaters – on you – which equals PAIN! This happens unconsciouslyConsciously, you wish to attract your soulmate – to experience joy of togetherness, intimacy, companionship. This mismatch between conscious and unconscious wants & needs, causes conscious and unconscious in-congruence – misalignment! Your unconscious does “whatever it takes“, energetically, through your thoughts, feelings & actions, to protect you which means either repelling or sabotaging soulmate relationships.

How can you eliminate or transform those limiting, barrier beliefs? Simple:
1) Life Change The App is a free download in Apple’s App Store and Android’s Google Play. Life Change the App contains one free app (Soulmate Attracter) and three in-app purchases. Belief Change the App – one of the in-app purchases ([hilight color=”FFFF00″]on sale now until midnight Valentine’sDay[/hilight]) – helps the user to remove their superficial, easy to shift beliefs;
2) Belief Change The Book contains a more extensive 10-step exercise that explores and enables how-to change deep rooted, more difficult to shift limiting and barrier beliefs. There is a link, in, to page through a chapter of Belief Change The Book which is available as e-download for B&N nook or’s kindle or for purchase as paperback.

Simple is not always easy; therefore, there is also Life Change Coaching Program to help you succeed in love and success.

Remove your barriers to love, and love flows to you effortlessly, and just in time for a Valentine’s Day celebration.

Cheers! <3
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T’is the Season for Family Fun Time

Regardless of “season” there is a fine line between work and play – balance is a key. Something else is even more important…

Elvis’ motto, TCB, taking care of business served to focus him effectively in many ways. Arguably, he might have benefited from a more comprehensive understanding of what “business” meant to him…

Take care of business – those things that must be done daily, weekly, monthly, etc. – to enjoy life’s pleasures. All too often, rather than equally distributed, most of our values land on one end of the spectrum, or the other, which causes imbalance, which causes stress. In addition to its effect on our body, relationships with those we love and care most for suffer – no one has fun!

Taking care of business in a balanced way, absolutely includes earning income, having fun, and much more than earning income and more than having fun. To know what is most important in your life – what is your business – learn your “values“. Not “carved in stone”, when you know what you value most you can then modify, adapt or reinvent them to match what you consciously want, intend and/or wish for. Life Change Coaching program helps you know what it is you value most and align them to what you most want.

Happy, joyous holidays!

Singing hearts attract things to sing about

Does your heart sing with joy or melancholy?

If your answer is “joy“; then, you clearly notice more “good” things in your experience.

If your answer is “melancholy” (or sadness, or anger, or despair, etc); then, you clearly notice more “bad” things in your experience.

Both exist in your experience simultaneously. Whether your focus is on “good” or “bad”, is a choice, and typically an unconscious “habit”.

As you might know, because of deeply entrenched neural pathways, hidden in your unconscious mind, habits are not easy to “break”; but, with persistent right effort, absolutely can be. Life Change Coaching Program* leverages trained Facilitators, Life Change the App* and other “exercises” to help you break habits that hold you back and prevent you from seeing, feeling, enjoying the “good” in your life. With help*, you, too, can be singing through the holidays and on through the New Year.

Wishing you a joyous holiday!

*NOT intended to replace professional medical or psychological treatment.
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I’m dreaming…

Have you ever heard the saying, “be careful what you ask for ‘cuz you just might get it”?

“Dreaming”, “asking” for what you want, even “wishing” are powerful tools to get what you want. Many of us, however, are unclear, insufficiently specific, and vague leaving a huge void that the Universe fills in with anything close to what we “asked” for; then, we groan, “it didn’t work”.

The Law of Attraction does work, every time; what’s buried in our unconscious mind, and.or lack of clarity, are blocks that repel or sabotage our ability to attract and enjoy what our conscious mind longs to experience. Life Change The App contains 4 apps that help the user remove blocks and saboteur energy.

Happy holidays!
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Holiday Magic

Most of us feel great joy, hope, increased intimacy and pleasure through the holidays. The total sensual experience – sights, sounds, scents, tastes and touch – is what makes the season seem ideal. Twinkling lights; Christmas Carols and tinkling bells; a whiff of cinnamon and cloves; the requirement to indulge in hot chocolate, apple cider, egg nog… all our favorite food and beverages; and what other time of year do people reach out more to connect physically, emotionally and spiritually? I often say “I wish it would last all year.”

New love generates very similar feelings, of great joy, intimacy and pleasure, in the beginning. It seems, however, that familiarity – that the feelings become the “norm” – diminishes and tarnishes the “magic” over time.

With conscious intent, and right action, the magical experience of joy, passion and pleasure continue as long as you intend. This website contains tips and ideas for how to keep Soulmate love alive and magical, well beyond the beginning…
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I believe in MAGIC!

Sometimes, all we need is child-like faith. willingness to reach out, explore and define the world around us – the way we WANT it to be. ‘Tis the season to BELIEVE!

I believe in “magic”, but not in “magical thinking”. “Magic” lies in “commitment” to be, do or have what you “want”.

“At the moment of commitment the entire Universe conspires to assist you.” Johann Wolfgang von Goethe

Happy holidays 🙂
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Soulmate Love and Karma

Karma: “you reap what you sow” – “you get back what you give out” – “do unto others…

Karma works as well on husbands as it does on wives – truly, ALL relationships.

A powerful yet misunderstood concept, Karma is a powerful tool for creating and living the life of your desires and dreams.

Wisdom erases karmic debt, not magically; rather, at a deep unconscious belief and soul level. In an ah-ha moment, when you learn the lesson it is meant to teach you, you instantly change your thoughts, words and actions. When you change your thoughts, words and actions, everything in your experience changes as a result.

However, learning & making appropriate changes does not necessarily change “consequences” of a deed done before. For example, if you broke a plate, it does not magically come back together. You can make amends, glue it back together and allow the “seams” to remind you that you successfully mastered that lesson!

Life Change the App has a Karma Change App within it that helps you make peace with your Karma and make shifts that enable you to live and love the life of your desires and dreams.
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